Over the years I have read many seduction related books, and there are a few that really should be required reading for any seducer. A few, that will set any man apart, that will give him that certain edge. All of these are written for a general audience. These are the cream of the crop. I wouldn’t consider someone a top seducer until he has read at least half these books.
1. Mystery Method
The Mystery Method book, also known as the Venusian Arts handbook is the most useful, complete and influential book on seduction. It is the staple and the reference guide to all seducers that are serious about their skills. Nearly every other book mentions the Mystery Method in one way or another, either to praise it, like in The Game, or to improve on it.
Reading the Mystery Method is enough in itself, but acts even better as a foundation on which to build on. Reading the Mystery Method is like reading a spell book, it gives you the tingling sensation that you have found the secret to seduction.
2. Savoy’s Magic Bullet
This book will surely win the 2007 award for best pickup book. It is the evolution of the Mystery Method. A revised, revamped, new and improved version of the Mystery Method written by one of the Mystery Method instructors, Savoy. The reason this book is so good is because it takes the concepts from the Mystery Method, practices them for 2 years, and then refines them even more. The theory behind this book is very similar to the Mystery Method, the only reason this book isn’t first on the list is because it is too new and has not had time to prove itself, like the Mystery Method has, for over 4 years. Magic bullets should be on everyone’s short list of must read books.
3. The game – Neil Strauss Style
The book The Game takes you through the journey of a Neil Strauss, a guy who seemed completely hopeless who turned himself into one of the world’s greatest seducers. Even though this book could be recommended on its entertainment value alone, it is one of the greatest examples of how to learn seduction. Throughout the book, Neil explains how he develops his technique, learning from all the greatest masters. Once you start reading The Game, you’ll need to reserve at least 3 days because you won’t be able to put it down. Ever since this book came out, the seduction community has grown exponentially.
4. David DeAngelo – Double your dating
The friendly, simple, easy to understand, best selling guide Double your Dating should also be on your short list of must have books. Even though it has a cheesy title, it is still one of the most influential books one should read and teaches anyone how to attract women without using any techniques. This book is crucial to seducers as it works with you from the inside out. Many other books refer to this one, although none of them teach you the essential skills such as Double Your Dating. This book is often one of the first books people read, and is the best book for beginners and intermediates alike.
5. Charisma Arts – By Juggler
The book Charisma arts by Juggler is a highly recommended read because it takes all the elements from advanced gurus and simplifies them into easy, natural ways of proceeding. Juggler provides the most natural approach, one that is very easy to apply. This book is unique in the sense that it applies to both beginners whom have no experience whatsoever and experts who have a lot of technique, but wish to move to a more natural approach. Charisma Arts was one of the most refreshing books that I have read in a long time.
Lance provides advanced techniques which will be useful to seducers who have a good base in seduction. This book focuses on both technique and on natural game. This book originally wasn’t going to make the list, but was so highly recommended by people that I have decided to include it. This book has been mentioned in many newspapers and is constantly mentioned among pickup artists.
Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test. After reading this book, you truly understand the deeper levels of communication of a woman. Everyone says women are emotional. But what are her emotional needs? What does a woman REALLY mean when she says something? Why do women call most men “clueless”?
Frank has identified some of the most important, if not to say, fundamental needs of women. Why does it bother women to be called sluts (I’m sure guys wouldn’t feel the way a woman feels if called a player!)? Why do women say one thing and do another? Why do women end up dating “assholes” (what are the qualities the asshole possesses?)? Why does a woman feel remorse after sleeping with you / kissing you in a club?
These are then type of situations all men have gone through and only few know how to handle in order to be the real man who knows how to satisfy the woman’s needs. This is not a book about pick-up lines. This is a book that will teach you how to get in touch with your masculinity in order to adopt the correct mindset, hence addressing a woman’s emotional needs. Unless you are a man whose love-life is exactly the way you want it to be or woman who’s found the perfect man, I wouldn’t think twice before reading this work of art.
Ok, there are only 7 titles that every seducer should read. If I would of been adding more, it would have been solely for the purpose of having a nice title. I’d rather spare you the BS. I wouldn’t recommend something I didn’t truly believe in anyways.