Sometimes you just don’t know what you have until it’s gone… and then you have yourself wondering:
Should I have let my ex go?
And… soon after, how do I get my ex back?
Such is the story of many men (myself included, I’m not immune to it). In the game of love, some hearts are bounded to be broken. That’s why our sister site, Waytoosocial, as published a new paper looking into the science behind breaking up and getting back together with your ex.
Using psychological tricks to increase the odds can help however sometimes it’s just about getting back to the basics and resolving the issue that originally caused the split to occur.
How to get your ex-girlfriend back
There is no straightforward way to get your ex-girlfriend back however you can increase the odds of that happening by going to work on yourself. The number one reason people break up in a relationship is because they don’t see a future together… correction: they don’t see a future with YOU.The number one reason people break up in a relationship is just because one person stop trying. Sometimes both people stop trying and then you end up having a bad relationship so what you need to do to get back into that relationship is to start working on yourself and resolve any issues that might have risen while you’re in that relationship. The trick to getting your ex back is to improve yourself. Sometimes though, it’s just not meant to be and you’re better off finding someone else then trying to force things back with your ex girlfriend
My favourite thing to do after a relationship ends is to make a list of all the things that I wanted to do but couldn’t while in the relationship. Then I systematically go through that list accomplishing all the things that I wanted to do and I post about it on social media. My ex significant other sees these posts and it entices them to contact me again.
Deciding if the relationship is best for both of you
Sometimes you have to face the hard decision in a relationship that you just aren’t meant to be together. If that’s the case then maybe it’s better that you break up. Being an adult and making hard decisions is what life is all about. You have to remember there are millions of people out there and if you stay with your ex you might not meet the right person for you.
You’re still thinking about your ex girlfriend and you’re convinced that you really need to get back together then make sure you read the article on the way to social. It will change your life and change the way you approach relationships in general.
Until you do, you’ll never really know if you gave up too easily or if it really wasn’t meant to be. I’m wishing you a happy getting back together party in the near future! Oh and make sure to work on the relationship to keep it healthy once you get it back.